心怡心語：幽默需要智慧

圖文：周心怡

真正的幽默需要大智慧，更多地是用來自我解嘲，在沒有徹底瞭解一個人之前，不要輕易用刀刃去試探別人。

如果拿捏不好玩笑的分寸，就別自以為是自我陶醉了吧。

這絕不是幽默，是心理問題、欠缺教養。

If you want to be happier and improve your relationships, cut out sarcasm since sarcasm is actually hostility disguised as humor. Tone down the sarcasm and work on clever wit. In essence, sarcasm is easy (as is most anger, criticism and meanness) while true, harmless wit takes talent.