心怡心語：挖樹挖根，交人交心

圖文：周心怡

挖樹挖根，交人交心。英文「瞭解」 （to understand）的字面意思可以理解為「站在下面觀察」。從別人的角度思考，理解，感受，許多矛盾都能因此化解。

Imagining another person’s perspective doesn’t actually improve our ability to judge how another person thinks or feels. Understanding requires compassion, patience and a willingness to believe that good hearts sometimes choice poor methods.