欲成大事,不能消耗自已的時間與人爭論,處處計較不但有損自己的性情,且會失去自制力。
在不違反原則的情況下,不妨謙讓。
與其跟惡犬一路走,不如讓牠先走一步,如果被惡犬咬一口,即使把牠打死,也不能治好傷口!
No man who is resolved to make the most of himself can spare time for personal contention, still less can he afford to take the consequences, including the vitiation of his temper and the loss of self control, yield to larger things to which you show no more than equal rights, and yield to lesser ones though clearly your own, better give your path to a dog, than be bitten by him in contesting for the right, not even killing the dog, will cure the bite.
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