圖文:周心怡
古希臘文的“溫柔”是praus,原意用形容馴服的野馬。未經馴服的馬兒野性很強,力氣很大,一個好主人能使它甘願順服,不再任憑己意,而是願意順應嚮導和指揮,儘管力氣依舊大,但它已將力氣交於新的主人來掌管。由此理解,溫柔不是軟弱,不是無能。 “溫柔”是強而不暴、不以力爭。
The respect you show to others is an immediate reflection on your self respect. You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.
Music: STOLEN LOVE
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